Crab mentality? I’ve met a lot of people who are afraid of what others will say about them. In our culture, some people will look down on you because you’re aggressive in every thing. From aiming a goal, making your dreams into reality and the like. Some won’t like it that you’re aiming too high.
Some won’t like you anymore because you’re trying to succeed and you are too focus with your life. Some will criticize you because you’re becoming wealthy and able to supply not just your daily needs. And Some will even create dirty gossip about how you got rich, like maybe you have a sugar dad/mom etc. I urge you: Don’t mind the crabs.
Fulfill your dreams anyway and be aggressive!