How do you deal with members of your church going to other churches and then trying to convince other members to go with him?

How do you deal with members of your church going to other churches and then trying to convince other members to go with him?

This is very bad. i have experience this too. A member want to leave our church, he also want me to leave. But i feel our church is warmer than the church he recommend.

Therefore, do not worry. God will guide them.