Jesus said: Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. My question is what is and how to deny myself?

Jesus said: Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. My question is what is and how to deny myself?

i think deny myself means to do God’s will and purpose. However, some people said God’s will is our like too. I do not know. i am confusing this too

Proverbs 3:5
Trust in the LORD with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding.

Humbleness is very very basic thing in Christian Faith…then what is the Humbleness? the Humbleness is obeying God’s word
When obey the God’s word and live that denying our self…

Micah 6:8
No, O people, the LORD has told you what is good, and this is what he requires of you: to do what is right, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.

Lay down your own thoughts and sacrifice your self to serve people.