How would you know the right person that God gives to you?
Pray for it and talk with the church leader to see whether you meet the right person. You will know he/she is the one because of the deep, spiritual connection that draws you to her/him. It will be like nothing else you’ve ever experienced. You may not feel this connection right away, but when God opens your eyes you will see the man/woman He has for you in a whole different way.
You may think about what is love
Pray. And if you can not tell clearly, you should unite with your leaders.