Which church to join?

I have been going to a lot of church for the past 2 years , and thinking about comitting and go to one church only for now on … but something bother me about the church im going to join. I really like this church but , last 2 weeks when the senior pastor was preaching . He is talking about tithing , and the word he said is “the money you gave back to the church is up to the pastor to use it(in an arrogant way)” this words really bother me either to join this church or find other place.

I think you can talk with your pastor first